Breakups are often the worst nightmares for people. People perceive breakups as the dead end, a complete failure of themselves. True that betrayal, dishonesty, wrong timing, or any of the other reasons completely shackle us into little rooms of unhappiness and feelings of unworthiness, however, it is important to always see some good in the bad. On the internet, in books, in songs, you must have listened and read a gazillion rendition of breakup stories, moving on from breakups, or the heart wrenching effects of a broken relationship. Learning and growing are the processes of life, and many people express that through different artistic mediums. We present you two artists, not singers or songwriters, but poetry performers and storytellers, who have penned the experiences of breakup, love, and self growth in the most lyrical, warm and self introspective manner. Rachana Patil and Helly Shah, yet bring us poetry performance pieces worth listening to! 

Sorry, I Cheated On You – Rachana Patil 

Rachana Patil, through her effortless poetry performance, takes us on a story of ‘cheating’ in a relationship. This is not your conventional story of cheating through acts of adultery. Rachana Patil beautifully narrates how sometimes we lie to ourselves and our partners, and try to distort reality into moulding what love is and not. Rachana Patil puts a crucial question in front of us, “What is the definition of Love?” It is different for different people, and changes as we move from people to people. Therefore, how are we then not supposed to feel anxious about it? Rachana, through her story, takes the listener to a series of events and brings to spotlight breakup, cheating and love in a new perspective. Listen to her poetry performance now to have those eye-opening realisations.

Break Up Ke Baad – Helly Shah 

Helly Shah just debunked and sifted away all those google search advice on ‘How to get over a Breakup,’ Helly Shah, through her poetry performance, gives us an honest, raw and a much needed tale of self love and self worth. Like everyone else, she tried google’s advice to run away from her feelings of sadness and go on a trip, and so she did. Helly Shah found in this trip, and amidst the waves of the free-flowing rivers, the real answer she was looking for. In nature, and away from the city, in moments of fear and laughter, Helly Shah understood the secret to life and love. Helly’s lyrical and natural poetry performance is like a breath of fresh air.

According to National Crime Bureau, 139,123 people commit suicide in India every year, and 5.6% of these cases are directly related to alcohol and other substance consumption. The short film”Shrab Band, Zindagi Shuru” discusses the direct causal relationship between alcohol addiction and miseries such as strained family relations, mental disorders and frequent suicide attempts. 

“Sharab Band, Zindagi Shuru” and fourteen other such short stories are part of the “Meri Zindagi Campaign with Neelesh Mishra.” The campaign is a collaborative effort of ‘The WHO Southeast Asia Regional Office’ and Mr Neelesh Misra’s creative team. It brings forth the dangerous outcomes of alcohol or other substance abuse in front of the youth and guides them on how to quit it. The many audio stories released under the campaign discuss various aspects of alcohol use. 

Story

The short film “Sharab Band, Zindagi Shuru” is the story of Yash Badal, the hero who, after 17 years of severe alcohol addiction, successfully reclaimed his life from alcohol. It is the story of his family who chose to seek help from professionals. A supportive family who stood by him in bad and worse is essentially the reason behind his revival. 

Yash’s alcohol addiction started when he was in school. Under peer pressure, he started drinking every week and soon, this weekly habit turned into daily practice. His addiction didn’t allow him to complete his graduation, have a promising career like his friends, or even a stable married life. Daily skirmishes and violence were usual at home, and soon, Yash, tired of daily fights with family and his addiction, got trapped in the web of depression and attempted to take his own life. 

But, Yash’s story is not about the struggle he faced due to alcohol addiction. His story is about acceptance, second chances and breaking the stereotypes related to alcohol addiction by talking about it. With constant support from family, he finally accepts his addiction and how lethal it is for him and wins his battle with alcohol. 

Today, Yash’s relationship with his family has improved, and he enjoys a blissful married life. Now, professionally, he is a well-known certified counsellor who helps alcohol-addicted people reclaim their lives back from the jaws of alcohol. He has also presented papers on alcohol at European Council and a conference in Dubai.

Yash’s story shows that addiction is not limited to the poor or uneducated, and neither it is impossible to overcome. If only, as a society, we could talk about it more openly rather than brush it under the carpet by demeaning the addict. In that case, we can push the youth of our country in the right direction, which makes an alarming 35% of total alcohol consumers in the country.

Consumption of alcohol is increasing day by day, and so do its unbearable consequences. As a result, according to the World Health Organization, 3.3 million people die every year due to alcohol-related problems and approximately 5.5% of the global burden of diseases results from alcohol consumption. The consequences of alcoholism don’t just end at depreciating health; it has far-reaching psychological, social, and legal consequences. These include domestic violence and strained relationships with family members to an unending financial crisis and even premature death. The intoxicated state forces people to indulge in violence, road accidents, and other serious conflicts. A study conducted by the National Institute of Mental Health and Neurosciences (NIMHANS) in 12 major hospitals in Bangalore city found that nearly 28% of road accident injuries directly resulted from alcohol intake.

Background

The short audio story Jhoola, written by Anulata Raj Nair, is a part of the “Meri Zindagi Campaign with Neelesh Mishra.” The campaign is a collaborative effort of ‘The WHO Southeast Asia Regional Office’ and Mr. Neelesh Misra’s creative team. It brings forth the dangerous outcomes of alcohol or other substance abuse in front of the youth and guides them on how to quit it. The many audio stories released under the campaign discuss various aspects of alcohol use. 

Story

Jhoola is about a joyous girl Radhika who adores the village she recently got married in. She loves its fertile land, greenery, and mango gardens. But, dark reality of the town couldn’t evade her for long. Radhika observes that the alcohol-addicted village makes it impossible for women to go out after dusk while during the daytime, scars are to be seen on every women body . People are in a deep financial crisis that hampers the education of the female child, and daily quarrels are common after dark.

After a lot of hesitation and thinking, she starts a campaign with the village women. Together, they work towards spreading awareness about alcohol abuse and its brutal consequences. Initially suffering some resistance, Radhika and other women successfully convince the whole village and its head in favor of the alcohol ban.

Gradually, the nights in the town became equally blissful as days. Now women don’t hide their hurt bodies. Family relationships are improving, and better financial conditions allow girls to rejoin the school. The village youth is pushed in the right direction and now focuses more on getting a good job.
One step taken by Radhika changed the direction of villagers forever. It shows that sometimes all we need to do is take a step forward, and the rest will follow.

In collaboration with great storyteller Neleesh Mishra, WHO rightly uses this platform to spread awareness, help people quit alcohol addiction, and bring about a significant societal change.

As little children, we’ve often troubled our grandmothers to tell us bedtime stories. These stories were moments of exhilaration, excitement, and anticipation. Some people have a way of words with their storytelling. They make the most mundane experiences and moments of life significant and weighty. Storytellers create an atmosphere of delight, suspense and ignite in us the feelings of awaiting, Rachana Patil and Nayab Midha, each with their own unique way of knitting the rhythmic stories, bring to the table two distinct stories from their lives. These are the stories adorned with personal teachings, realisations, hopes, and lessons. 

Career Ka Kya Plan Hai – Rachana Patil 

Rachana Patil transports us to the crowd of the city of Mumbai. Her words, her metaphors, her expressions and tones, literally sets a scene around you, to completely engross you in her storytelling. Rachana Patil brings out the irony of the city of Mumbai, and the hypocrisy of our daily lives. Growing up, we’ve all been driven stressed by the question of ‘career’. The constant anxiety is only tripled when our relatives ask us about our career paths. Rachana Patil was posed with the same question by her uncle in the midst of a traffic jam in Mumbai. Later she takes the local train, and there witnesses an incident, a family, to be precise, which changes her whole perspective. She finds her vision in the hubbub of Mumbai. This new vision she gets is something we must all think about in our lives because it is eye opening and like a breath of warmth and comfort. Check out this episode of her storytelling to get to know what that moment of realisation was! 

Ghar Jaisa Ishq – Nayab Midha

Nayab Midha brings to her audience the realities of long-distance relationships. Many people hold love in high regard, that no matter the distance, love always prevails. However, here Nayab Midha lyrically narrates both the ugly and beautiful sides of long-distance relationships. Nayab Midha shares the story of childhood love, which blossomed into even a stronger love as the pair grew up together. However, life is driven by dreams. Some dreams which can only be fulfilled in big cities. Promises of meeting often are made, but as Nayab Midha says that a handful of memories can not always make up for the distance. The storytelling by Midha brings us to new facets of love, and how sometimes people have to give up on each other, on some dreams, and accept the realities. Do listen to Nayab Midha’s beautiful storytelling on love and dreams!

What comes to our minds the very moment we hear a ‘story’ are the days we used to spend with our grandparents. Those bedtime stories where we used to learn some old-new lessons, know about some favorite characters which we still keep safe in our hearts. We all have been induced with human values and love for mankind by stories. It was the stories that taught us why rabbit, being the fastest, lost the race and how the woodcutter took the three axes home. Talking of stories now feels nostalgic, doesn’t it?

Those good days may have passed, but these storytellers present the new lessons to the new generation today via social media platforms. These new stories about the fast-paced lifestyle are here to teach us the lessons of life.

“Na Yaane Na” by Neelesh Misra

A father-son relationship is the most sensitive and yet the strongest of all the relationships. Bringing forward the story of a young, college-going boy, Aditya, Neelesh Misra has narrated this intriguing story in a simple way. Written by Deepak Heera Ranganath and presented in collaboration with the World Health Organization, ‘Na Yaane Na’ is one of the stories from the audio storytelling show “Meri Pyaari Zindagi with Neelesh Misra”.

“Na Yaane Na” is a story that reflects the choices we make in our lives. With the message to the “youngblood” to quit drinking and learn to say ‘NO’ to alcohol, the video is winning hearts over the internet. Aditya is a boy who has just stepped into the world to fulfil his dreams. Will he get lost in the darkness of addictions that youth brings along with energy and passion? To check out how the story of Aditya takes a turn with his choice between his family and alcohol!

‘Alvida Lekin Kyu: Part 2’ by Rakesh Tiwari

In collaboration with ‘Half Baked Tales’, Rakesh Tiwari has written and performed the story ‘Alvida Lekin Kyu’ with a sweet smile. The two parts are performed by Krishna Singh and Rakesh Tiwari, respectively, are the two coins of the story of two lovers falling apart. The part narrated by Rakesh is of a man, reminding his lover all the hopes to not to say goodbyes when the promises and love are the same as before.

‘Alvida Lekin Kyu’ will make you realize the true meaning of love. That, relationships are not merely based on love. The story is an exchange of letters between the falling lovers. The presentation of the story as letters simply heart touching. The message it conveys to us will certainly redefine the definitions of long-distance relationships. ‘Alvida Lekin Kyu’ is a must watch for all those who yearn the presence of their lost loved one.