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The Fear of Connection: Understanding Avoidant Attachment Style
Understand the crux of avoidant attachment style, its characteristics and how to modify it into a more secure style.
You might often wonder, “Why do I behave this way? Why am I so influenced by my connections with others? Why do I approach relationships the way I do? Why do I act differently with the person closest to me? Why am I so deeply attached to them? Why is conflict with my partner so challenging?” The answers to these questions can be found in your attachment style. Understanding your attachment style is crucial to improving any relationship, as these patterns develop during early childhood and influence how we connect with others throughout life, according to attachment theories by Bowlby and Ainsworth. These attachment styles are rooted in our early interactions with primary caregivers, typically our parents. The way they respond to our needs shapes our attachment style and influences our expectations for future relationships. Identifying your attachment style helps explain your behaviour with others, offers insight into how others view you and promotes better communication with loved ones. In this piece, we explore the avoidant attachment style, its traits, and how to make positive changes accordingly.
What is an Avoidant attachment style?
An avoidant attachment style, also known as dismissive-avoidant, typically develops when a child experiences emotional neglect or insensitivity from the caregivers. Caregivers may have been emotionally unavailable, dismissive or rejecting, leading the child to learn that their emotional needs might not be met. To cope, the child often suppresses their feelings and becomes overly self-reliant, minimising their need to connect with others.
As these children grow into adults, they may continue to believe that they cannot rely on other people to meet their emotional needs and take the responsibility of being their emotional support system. Consequently, it comes at the cost of not forming intimate relationships or connections with others. While this might seem like a functional defensive mechanism, it often leads to difficulty in forming healthy, secure relationships.
Characteristics of Avoidant Attachment Style
Adults with an avoidant attachment style typically exhibit several distinctive traits. These traits serve as defence mechanisms to protect themselves from vulnerability, but they can also prevent meaningful relationships and emotional connections
Independence over connection
People with an avoidant attachment style prefer independence and self-sufficiency. They often avoid relying on others and may feel uncomfortable when others depend on them emotionally. While being independent is not necessarily negative, this extreme form of self-reliance can cause distance in personal relationships. An example of this would be— Rani loves her job and spends most of the time working. When her friends invite her to social gatherings, she usually declines saying she’s too busy. Even when she’s lonely, she convinces herself that she doesn’t need anyone and can handle everything on her own. The core element of this example is the overwhelming nature of connection to Rani and a need to balance between interdependence and independence.
Difficulty expressing emotions
Those with an avoidant attachment style struggle to express their emotions, especially vulnerability or emotional needs. They may minimise or dismiss their feelings, believing that emotions make them appear weak or dependent. This can lead to misunderstandings in relationships, where partners might feel emotionally shut out.
Mark had a rough day at work but when his partner asks him about how his day went, he replies with “It was good” rather than expressing how he felt throughout the day. Even though he’s stressed and upset, he doesn’t want to burden his partner or let them think he’s weak, so he keeps his feelings to himself.
Avoidance of intimacy
One of the core features of this attachment style is the avoidance of deep emotional or physical intimacy. People with this attachment style may become uncomfortable when relationships become too close, often pulling back when their partner seeks a deeper emotional connection. They may also have difficulty trusting others with their vulnerabilities.
Emily has been dating John for six months. As their relationship gets more serious, John starts talking about moving in together. Instead of feeling excited even when she thinks John is a suitable partner for her in the long term, she becomes distant and starts spending less time with him, feeling uncomfortable with the idea of getting too close.
Low tolerance for emotional sensitivity
People with avoidant attachment styles are often uncomfortable with intense emotions, whether they come from themselves or others. They tend to downplay or dismiss emotional outbursts and may appear emotionally distant or unresponsive during emotional situations.
During a heated family discussion, Rita feels overwhelmed when her sibling starts crying. Rather than comforting them, she quickly changes the subject and suggests they “just move on” because she feels uncomfortable with the emotional intensity in the room. Rita prefers to keep conversations light and avoids any deep emotional exchanges
Modifying the avoidant attachment style
Self-aware
The first step to every form of self-reflection is to stay self-aware of your own emotions and feelings. Understanding why you feel the way you do is essential to modify your attachment style. Many people with an avoidant style have learnt to suppress their feelings and tend to not recognise them. So starting with recognising and acknowledging them, eventually it becomes easier to name your emotions and work accordingly. Mindfulness, journaling and many more techniques help you to stay in the moment and remain self-aware.
Challenge
One of the markers of an avoidant attachment style is to not depend on others for any emotional needs. Challenging this negative belief after the first step of being self-aware leads you towards interdependence which is a healthy and natural part of relationships. It is okay to lean on others for emotional support and to let others lean on you. Secure relationships thrive on a balanced exchange of emotional give and take.
Seek therapy
Therapy can be incredibly beneficial for individuals with an avoidant attachment style, especially if the patterns are deeply ingrained. A therapist can effectively help you to reach the root of your problems and work accordingly to make your needs meet. They can help you develop negative beliefs, and develop healthier relationship behaviours. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) has been particularly useful in addressing problems that arise due to attachment styles. Therapy can provide a safe space to practise vulnerability and emotional expression, leading to healthier relationships over time.
Avoidant attachment style can pose challenges in relationships, often creating emotional distance, difficulty with intimacy, and a reluctance to rely on others. However, this attachment style is not set in stone. With self-awareness, challenging negative beliefs and seeking therapy, it is possible to step into a more secure attachment style. Whether through self-exploration or therapy, the journey from avoidant to secure attachment is a worthwhile and achievable goal that leads to stronger connections and emotional well-being.
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Mental Health Habits: Small Changes for Big Impact
Did you know that small habits have a huge impact on your mental health? Dive into the psychology behind habits and many more!
In recent years, mental health has become an increasingly important part of the broader health conversation. While therapy, medication and professional interventions are crucial for managing mental health disorders, the foundation of good mental well-being often lies in everyday habits. The science of habit formation provides insight into how small, consistent actions can shape the trajectory of our mental health over time. By understanding how habits form and integrating those that support emotional resilience, individuals can create lasting changes that promote mental health.
The Psychology of Habit Formation
Habits are automatic behaviours triggered by specific cues, often performed without conscious thought. According to Charles Duhigg in The Power of Habit, the habit loop consists of three main components: the cue, the routine and the reward. A cue triggers the behaviour, the routine is the behaviour itself and the reward reinforces the habit, making it more likely to occur.
Psychologically, habits form because the brain is constantly seeking efficiency. Neural pathways that are reportedly activated become stronger, making behaviours easier to perform over time. This process, known as “neuroplasticity”, demonstrates the brain’s ability to rewire itself based on repeated experiences. While this is helpful for developing positive habits, it also means that negative habits can take root if left unchecked.
Habits tied to mental health often stem from coping mechanisms. For example, reaching for a phone to scroll through social media after a stressful day may offer temporary relief but could exacerbate feelings of anxiety or inadequacy in the long term. Conversely, healthier habits like journaling or exercising, provide constructive ways to manage emotions and foster psychological resilience.
The Link Between Habits and Mental Health
Mental health is influenced by a combination of genetic, environmental and lifestyle factors. Among these, habits play a critical role in shaping how we respond to stress, process emotions and interact with others. Positive habits can act as protective factors, buffering against mental health challenges while negative habits may increase vulnerability to conditions like anxiety and depression.
Sleep Hygiene
One of the most foundational habits for mental health is maintaining good sleep hygiene. Sleep affects nearly every aspect of mental and emotional functioning. Studies show that poor sleep is associated with increased risk of anxiety, depression and cognitive decline. Simple habits such as maintaining a consistent sleep schedule, limiting screen time before bed and creating a calming bedtime routine can significantly improve both the quality and quantity of sleep.
Physical activity
Exercise is another powerful habit that supports mental health. Regular physical activity increases the production of endorphins, dopamine and serotonin, neurotransmitters that regulate mood. Research has shown that exercise can be as effective as antidepressants for mild to moderate depression. Incorporating even 20-30 minutes of movement daily, whether through walking, yoga or strength training can have profound effects on emotional well-being.
Mindfulness and Stress Management
Mindfulness practices such as meditation and deep breathing helps individuals stay present and reduce rumination, a common feature of anxiety and depression. Cultivating a habit of mindfulness can rewire the brain to respond more calmly to stress. Studies in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) often incorporate mindfulness as a tool to help individuals break patterns of negative thinking.
Nutrition and Mental Health
The gut-brain connection highlights the importance of diet in mental health. Food rich in omega-3 fatty acids, antioxidants and vitamins like B12 have been linked to improved mood and reduced symptoms of anxiety and depression. Developing habits like meal prepping and incorporating more whole foods into daily meals can provide the nutrients necessary for optimal brain function.
Social Connections
Humans are inherently social beings, and maintaining strong social ties is crucial for mental health. Loneliness has shown to be the cause of increase in depression, anxiety and even physical illness. Building habits that prioritise meaningful interactions like scheduling weekly calls with friends or joining a community group, can foster a sense of belonging and emotional support.
Strategies for Building Mental Health- Supportive Habits
- Start Small
The key to sustainable habit formation is starting with manageable actions. For example, instead of committing to an hour-long workout everyday, start with a 10-minute walk. Small successes build momentum and create a sense of accomplishment.
- Use Habit Stacking
James Clear, author of Atomic Habits, suggests “habit stacking” as a method to build new habits by linking them to existing ones. For example, if you already brush your teeth every morning, you could add a one-minute mindfulness exercise immediately afterward.
- Set Clear Cues and Rewards
Cues are essential for triggering habits. Placing a yoga mat in plain sight can remind you to exercise or setting a daily alarm can prompt a gratitude journaling session. Pairing these actions with rewards, like listening to a favourite song or enjoying a cup of tea afterward reinforces the behaviour.
- Track Progress
Monitoring progress can keep you motivated. Journaling, using habit-tracking apps, or marking a calendar can serve as visual reminders of your achievements. Seeing consistent progress reinforces the belief that change is possible.
- Be Patient and Kind to Yourself
Building habits takes time and setbacks are part of the process. It’s essential to practice self-compassion and avoid self-criticism when lapses occur. Focus on consistency over perfection.
Breaking Negative Habits
Just as building positive habits is important, breaking negative ones is essential for mental health. Negative habits often serve as coping mechanisms for stress or emotional pain, making them difficult to eliminate.
Identify Triggers
Understanding what triggers a negative habit is the first step to breaking it. For instance, if stress leads to overeating, identifying specific stressors can help you address the root cause instead of relying on food for comfort.
Replace, Don’t Eliminate
Instead of simply trying to stop a negative habit, replace it with a positive one. For example, if you’re trying to reduce screen time before bed, substitute scrolling with reading or practicing relaxation techniques.
Seek Support
Breaking entrenched habits often requires external support. Whether through friends, family or professions, having someone to hold you accountable or provide encouragement can make the process easier.
Case Study: Millie’s Journey to Mental Wellness
Millie, a 32-year-old marketing professional, had been struggling with anxiety and burnout for years. Her days were filled with back-to-back meetings, late nights working on deadlines, and endless scrolling on her phone to unwind. She often felt drained, irritable and disconnected from herself. Realising that she needed change, Millie sought help from a therapist who introduced the concept of habit formation. Together, they identified key areas to improve- sleep, stress management and physical activity.
Millie started small. She committed to a bedtime routine that included shutting off screens an hour before bed and practicing 10 minutes of deep breathing. She also began walking for 15 minutes during her lunch break, which helps her clear her mind and boost her mood. To manage stress, Millie incorporated a gratitude journal into her evening routine, listing three positive moments from her day.
Over six months, Millie noticed significant improvements in her mental health. Her anxiety levels decreased, she felt more energised and developed a greater sense of control over her life. While setbacks continuously occurred, Millie’s commitment to building positive habits ultimately transformed her approach to mental health.
Building habits that support mental health requires intentional effort, patience and self-awareness. By understanding the psychological principles behind habit formation and focusing on small, consistent changes, individuals can create routines that nurture emotional well-being. Whether it’s prioritizing sleep, practicing mindfulness, or fostering social connections, the habits we cultivate shape our mental health and overall quality of life. Like Millie’s journey, progress may be gradual, but the rewards are lasting and transformative.
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Bridging Gaps: Mental Healthcare Act and Rural India
Revolutionising mental health in rural India: A guide to the transformative impact of the Mental Healthcare Act.
Access to mental health care has long been a challenge for rural India, where stigma and limited resources have served as barriers. However, introducing the Mental Healthcare Act 2017 will be a game-changer. By following a patient-centric approach, it seeks to ensure equitable, accessible, and affordable mental health services. Let’s see how this law transforms lives in rural India and how communities can rouse themselves to utilise the provisions of this Act towards enacting a healthy tomorrow.
Key Provisions of the Mental Healthcare Act
The Act provides for:
- Right to Access Mental Healthcare: The Right to Mental Health is provided to every individual through services delivered by the government.
- Decriminalisation of Suicide: A progressive approach couched in the belief that attempts at suicide are cries for help and should, therefore, not be deemed criminal acts.
- Mental Health Review Boards: These boards offer mechanisms for grievance redressal for patients.
- Options of Guardianship: Such decisions would permit an individual to speak directly or indirectly through nominees when they cannot do so on their behalf.
- Awareness and Advocacy: A section that encourages the propagation of mental health literacy in rural areas.
Far-Reaching Benefits for Rural India
The Act addresses systemic challenges through:
- Infrastructure Development: Establishes that district hospitals adopt mental health units.
- Task-Shifting Models: Trains local health workers to provide essential mental health services.
- Subsidised Treatments: Guarantees affordability for the underprivileged.
- Telemedicine Services: Bridges the gap where physical access of a professional into the area becomes limited.
Steps to Access Mental Healthcare in Rural Areas
- Local Health Clinics: Visit the nearest primary health centre or district hospital. Health workers are usually trained to deal with such mental health work through this Act.
- Helplines: Helpline numbers are available and are free, rendering assistance 24/7. One is KIRAN (1800-599-0019), which involves crisis intervention and counselling.
- Community Outreach Programs: Find out local drives toward awareness of mental health and grab such information and services.
- Use of Telemedicine: The patient is electronically linked with a government-registered therapist in such a case.
Barriers to be Overcome
Though with promise, rural India continues to deal with stigma and disability in the area of workforce and limited resources intended for therapeutic activity. Possible solutions to this situation are:
- Spread Awareness: Community members could be educated by local leaders and others from NGOs.
- Involve ASHA Workers: Those are accredited social health activists who can act as conduits between the local community and the formal services.
- Use Technology: Encourage using smartphones and community internet centres to access telehealth opportunities.
Putting a Path Ahead: Scaling Up Mental Health Access in Rural India
While the Mental Healthcare Act 2017 has provided a vigorous basis, the journey toward mental health care in rural India is elongated and requires renewed actions, reinvention, and partnerships. Hereinafter given are crucial strategies and actions to increase its effectiveness.
1. Strong Mental Health Infrastructure
- Mobile Mental Health Units: Deploy well-equipped mobile vans with mental health professionals to serve remote areas.
- Creation of Specialised Centres in Every District: Establish Mental Health Units in each district hospital with trained psychiatrists, psychologists, and counsellors.
- Integration with Primary Healthcare: Embed mental health services into all existing primary health centres (PHCs) to make services available for users.
2. Nurturing Community-Based Solutions
- Train Local Champions: Enlighten ASHA workers, village heads, and school teachers on identifying early signs of mental health issues and connecting individuals with suitable care.
- Self-Help Groups: Develop community-based support groups for people facing similar challenges to have mutual support and reduce stigma.
- Collaboration with Traditional Healers: In areas where traditional healers are more popular, get them involved in awareness campaigns to diffuse cultural gaps.
3. Using Technology
- AI Support Diagnosis Tool: AI tools will be deployed to help frontline workers correctly identify mental health concerns.
- E-Consultation Portal: Develop user-friendly telemedicine platforms with local language support and free access.
- Mental Health Apps: Launch free mobile applications with government endorsement, encompassing easy access to self-help, guided meditation, and rapid access to counsellors.
4. Education and Awareness Promotion
- Mental Health Literacy Campaigns: Culturally relevant large-scale public awareness campaigns to inform communities about mental health, its signs and symptoms, and available treatment avenues.
- School-Based Programs: Design a mental health module in the public school syllabus for early-age awareness.
- -Media Partnership: Collaborate with radio, TV, and social media influencers to change perceptions about mental health.
5. Policy and Funding Support
- Increased Budget Allocation: Advocate for increased government funding for sustainable infrastructure and recruiting more mental healthcare professionals.
- PPP-Public-Private Partnerships: Encourage partnerships with non-governmental organisations, private healthcare providers, and tech companies to deliver services more confidently.
- Insurance Coverage: Ensure inclusion of mental health services in rural health insurance schemes, thus minimising the financial burden.
6. Research and Development
- Localised Studies: Conduct localised research to understand specific mental health challenges rural populations face
- Incubation Models: Cutting a path and booming mental health services tailored to meet rural needs, e.g., community-based mental healthcare, peer-support programs, community-focused interventions to improve policy, and action-oriented pilot programs.
- Outcome Evaluation: Using data analytics to track mental health programs’ impact across the service spectrum and adjusting policies.
7. Building the Mental Health Workforce
- Other scholarships for candidates from rural areas including those in psychiatry, psychology or social work.
- Workshops and training are needed to continue the education of rural practitioners regarding current best practices in healthcare.
- Voluntary Networks: Networks of trained volunteers who support professionals over-stretched in high-need areas.
8. Addressing Social Barriers
- Anti-Stigma Campaigns: Development of culturally sensitive anti-mental health myth and stigma destruction programs.
- Gender Permanent Program: Consider thought patterns of mental health by addressing women-specific issues of postpartum depression and domestic violence trauma.
- Inclusion of marginalised groups: The programs must meet caste and ethnic minorities’ extraordinary and unique needs. No one must be left behind.
These initiatives would transform the act from merely a legislative mandate towards a transformative role whereby mental wellness is achieved for all, irrespective of geography and social strata.
Collaboration to Achieve a Sustainable Impact
Ultimately, success will depend upon integrating government policy with private sector innovations, community involvement, and the empowerment of individuals. A multi-stakeholder approach will fill the gaps and build a resilient mental health framework across rural India.
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Embrace the Now: Finding Peace in Acceptance
Finding it hard to stay calm and accept reality in more than a few situations? Here is your guide which can help you achieve acceptance!
Life is a series of moments, both joyful and difficult. While the former often requires little effort to embrace, the latter can rest our resilience, emotional regulation and sense of control. Acceptance, a key component of emotional well-being, can be a powerful strategy to cope with adversity. However, practicing acceptance does not mean resignation or passivity, it involves actively acknowledging reality, understanding your emotions and making intentional choices about how to respond. This article explores how to practice acceptance in challenging situations through a psychological sense, offering actionable strategies and insights into its profound impact on mental health.
Understanding Acceptance
From a psychological standpoint, acceptance is the ability to recognise and tolerate unpleasant emotions, thoughts or situations without trying to change, resist or suppress them. It stems from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), which emphasises aligning with reality instead of expending energy fighting it.
Research suggests that acceptance reduces emotional suffering and builds psychological flexibility, the capacity to adapt to changing circumstances without becoming overwhelmed. By facing difficulty with openness, individuals can break free from the trap of avoidance, rumination or denial which often exacerbates stress and emotional pain.
Why Acceptance Matters?
I’m challenging situations, the instinctive response is often resistance. We may deny what is happening, blame ourselves or others, fixate on how unfair the situation feels. While these reactions are natural, they can intensify suffering by creating a gap between reality and expectations.
Acceptance offers an alternative. By acknowledging the present moment as it is, individuals can:
Reduce Emotional Resistance
Fighting against reality often leads to frustration and despair. Acceptance helps reduce this resistance, allowing emotions to flow naturally.
Gain Clarity
Acceptance fosters a calm mind, making it easier to assess the situation objectively and identify actionable steps.
Improve Mental Health
Studies show that acceptance is linked to reduced anxiety, depression and stress. It promotes emotional regulation and resilience.
Enhance Relationships
Accepting others’ flaws and limitations can lead to healthier, more compassionate relationships.
Barriers to Acceptance
While the concept of acceptance is simpler, practising it is often challenging. Common barriers include:
- Fear of Vulnerability: Accepting a painful situation might feel like admitting weakness or losing control.
- Misconceptions about Acceptance: Many confuse acceptance with resignation, believing it means giving up or condoning a negative situation.
- Emotional Overwhelm: Intense emotions like anger, grief or fear can make acceptance feel impossible in the moment.
- Perfectionism: The desire for control and perfection can hinder the willingness to embrace imperfections in life.
Recognising these barriers is the first step toward overcoming them.
Steps to Practice Acceptance
- Acknowledge Your Emotions
The first step in practicing acceptance is recognising and naming your emotions. Instead of suppressing or avoiding them, allow yourself to feel them fully. For example, if you are experiencing grief, admit to yourself, “I feel sad and heartbroken”.
Psychologists often recommend using mindfulness techniques to observe emotions without judgement. By identifying your feelings, you reduce their power over you and create space for self-compassion.
- Distinguish Between Control and Influence
A critical aspect of acceptance is understanding what you can and cannot control. Psychologist Julian Rotter’s Locus of Control Theory highlights the importance of distinguishing between internal and external factors.
For example, if you’re facing a challenging work situation, you may not control your manager’s actions, but you can influence your response and attitude.
- Shift Your Perspective
Reframing your mindset can make acceptance easier. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) techniques encourage identifying unhelpful thought patterns and replacing them with more constructive ones.
Ask Yourself:
- What is this situation teaching me?
- How can I grow from this experience?
- Is my resistance helping or hurting me?
By shifting focus from “Why is this happening to me?” to “What can I learn from this?”, you foster a sense of agency and resilience.
- Practice Mindfulness
Mindfulness is a cornerstone of acceptance. By staying present and observing your thoughts and emotions without judgement, you cultivate a non-reactive stance toward life’s challenges. Practical mindfulness techniques include breathing exercises, body scans and meditation.
Mindfulness allows you to experience the resent moment fully, rather than getting caught up in regret about the past or anxiety about the future.
- Accept Uncertainty
Many challenging situations involve uncertainty, which can be deeply uncomfortable. Humans have an innate desire for predictability and control, but life often defies these expectations.
Practicing acceptance involves embracing the unknown and trusting in your ability to adapt. Remind yourself that uncertainty is a natural part of life and that you have faced unexpected situations before and emerged stronger.
- Cultivate Self-Compassion
Acceptance is not about being harsh or critical with yourself, it requires kindness and understanding. Psychologist Kristin Neff’s work on self-compassion emphasises treating yourself as you would a close friend. If you’re struggling with acceptance, self-compassion techniques like affirmations, gentle encouragement and physical comfort reduces emotional reactivity and makes acceptance feel more attainable.
- Take Meaningful Action
Acceptance does not mean passivity. Once you’ve acknowledged and accepted the situation, identify constructive steps to move forward. This may involve setting boundaries, seeking support or making lifestyle changes.
For example, if you’re dealing with a health diagnosis, acceptance might involve following a treatment plan and making healthier choices rather than fixating on the diagnosis itself.
The Long-Term Benefits of Acceptance
The practice of acceptance has far-reaching effects on psychological well-being. Over time, it builds resilience, fosters emotional stability and deepens self-awareness. Research shows that individuals who embrace acceptance experience:
- Reduces levels of chronic stress.
- Improves interpersonal relationships.
- Greater satisfaction with life.
- Enhanced ability to navigate future challenges.
Acceptance also contributes to post-traumatic growth, the ability to find meaning and purpose after adversity. By reframing difficult experiences as opportunities for growth, individuals can emerge stronger and more self-assured.
Practicing acceptance in challenging situations is a powerful skill that requires patience, persistence and self-compassion. It is about giving up or condoning adversity but about acknowledging reality and responding intentionally.
Through mindfulness, cognitive reframing and self-compassion, you can build a mindset of acceptance that transforms how you navigate life’s challenges. Over time, this approach fosters resilience, emotional well-being and a deeper sense of inner peace. By embracing what you cannot change and taking thoughtful action where you can, you unlock the freedom to grow and thrive, even in the face of adversity.
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From “Me” to “We”: Building Community Mental Health In India
Empowering individuals and fostering collective mental health resilience in India through community-driven care initiatives.
With the year 2025 on the horizon, mental health continues to emerge as a priority in India, where awareness is climbing, but significant challenges remain. While self-care has gained momentum through mindfulness, yoga, and therapy practices, the increasingly demanding nature of individual resilience urges a more collective formulation. Communities for mental health, thus, can successfully fill the gaps of accessibility, affordability, and stigma, thereby ensuring a supportive ecosystem for all.
Collective Mental Health Care
While in self-care, the onus of personal responsibility lies with the individual, the idea behind the philosophy is shared responsibility and support in collective care. In India, where family and community ties are firmly entrenched, collective care offers a model highly resonant with culture. This approach relies on wealth-sharing, mutual aid, and collective action to establish a more sustainable mental health sphere.
Key benefits of collective mental health care:
- Accessibility: Initiatives led by community-driven processes seek to make mental health resources available to people who have remained invisible.
- Affordability: Collective pooling of resources could lead to more affordable therapy, workshops, and group activities.
- Reduced Stigma: When talking about mental health issues becomes commonplace within communities, this decreases prejudice from society around such matters.
Creating A Mental Health Community in 2025
1. Grassroots Mental Health Awareness Campaigns
Different populations throughout India will require different culturally sensitive educations of mental health. Therefore, such local campaigns, comprising NGOs, community leaders, and mental health professionals, can address misconceptions and offer information in regional languages. Schools, colleges, and workplaces can greatly promote awareness and knowledge-restoral efforts with targeted programs.
2. Peer Support Networks
Peer support groups are instrumental in creating a sense of belonging and comprehension. Initiatives like online mental health forums, neighbourhood support groups, and helplines enable people to connect, share experiences, and encourage one another. Platforms like iCall and the AASRA Foundation might generate similar grassroots movements across India.
3. Marrying Traditional with Modern Approaches
The Indian heritage has numerous holistic practices like yoga, Ayurveda, and meditation, which suit modern therapeutic techniques nicely. Incorporating these in community programs can break mental health care barriers, making it more approachable and culturally relevant. For example, mindfulness workshops blended with Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) can appeal to a broader spectrum of the populace.
4. Mental Health First Aid Training
Knowing basic mental health first aid skills increases recognition in crises, and the migrant creates connections, paving the way to respond. Training of teachers, employers, and local leaders can create a linkage of first responders.
5. Digital Mental Health Solutions
Giant countries like India should democratise mental health care through the help of different digital platforms. Teletherapy, mobile apps, and AI-based chatbots would allow information and resources even in remote places. Partnerships of tech companies with the government (like the Mental Health Digital Mission) would work toward unveiling these solutions.
Overcoming Barriers to Collective Mental Health
So, if there is any redeeming light, building a mental health community in India is clouded with darkness. Along with some other caveats, there are:
- Stigma: Deep-rooted taboos about mental illness can obstruct participation.
- Resource Gaps: Lack of trained personnel and weak infrastructure can curb the reach of collective efforts.
- Disparities in Social and Economic Foundations: It is a convoluted task to see inclusivity across urban and rural settings.
Seeking out these barriers depends on policy-level support, public-private partnerships, and advocacy. For instance, incentivising measures for mental health professionals working in rural or suburban communities to conduct therapy programs can help bridge these gaps.
Natural Domain of Action by the Endeavors of Stakeholders
With a proper policy framework and implementation, the Mental Healthcare Act (2017) recognises mental illness as a health right for the citizens of India; hence, some avenues may be pursued for furtherance by policymakers:
- Funding support to the schemes on community mental health.
- Providing incentives to private enterprises to sponsor local initiatives.
- Introducing and making mental health a compulsory subject in schools and places of work.
Those above can also be niches within which non-profit organisations and private enterprises can implement the growing models of local community care and encourage collaboration among regional stakeholders.
A Vision for 2025 and Beyond
The paradigm shift from self-care to collective care in India can change how mental health is viewed and gently manoeuvred. A well-connected society pursuing collective mental well-being can ease the mental health burden upon the individual manifold. It is possible to build a resilient society for mental health to flourish, fostering empathy, building trust, and sharing resources.
May 2025 be the year India is exemplified in context when it comes to the philosophy of Caring for Others, which involves caring for oneself.
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Elder Loneliness in India
Exploring the effects of shifting family dynamics and loneliness elderly mental health and well-being in India.
Although traditionally strong family ties are being overtaken by a radical change in the fabric of Indian society today, a fast emergence among the younger cohorts is a cause of grave concerns: the increasing loneliness among older people and the adverse effects on their health. This article cites how the changing family structure in India gives rise to increasing loneliness and its consequent reactions, particularly to mental health.
The Changing Dynamics of Families in India
Traditionally, Indian families have been based around multigenerational nurturing, with older people living with their children and grandchildren. This provided an emotional infrastructure, practical caregiving, and a sense of belonging. Though these associations were changed by rapid urban growth, migration for job opportunities, and other social transformations over the last 5 decades, these songs bear witness to recent trends toward the nuclear family in which the parents often live away from their children. This is making elders more lonely and depressed, with no support systems, particularly in rural areas.
More than one-third of older people live alone or in the solitude of urban centres with limited support, according to a study in the Indian Journal of Psychiatry- behaving entirely contrary to the past communal living set-up.
The Rise of Elder Loneliness in India
Loneliness in the elderly does not solely mean physical isolation but also emotional disconnection. Older adults experience little social interaction feelings of abandonment, depression, and anxiety. Such loneliness has dire, dire consequences. Research by the National Institute of Mental Health and Neuro Sciences (NIMHANS) concludes that the elderly who realise they find themselves lonely have greater chances of being diagnosed with mental ailments such as depression, anxiety disorders, and, more recently, cognitive decline and dementia.
A study conducted by HelpAge India found that 70% of older people in India suffer from some sort of loneliness. Contributive factors include lacking children to provide emotional or financial support, diminished mobility, and a minimal social network.
Impact On Mental Health
Loneliness in older adults has consequences that can overshadow other factors. It undermines the quality of life for the elderly. Beyond the long-term effects of loneliness on chronic conditions such as heart disease, hypertension, and diabetes, its immediate psychological effects can prove to be equally devastating. Lonely agers are susceptible to declining mental health, which opens them up to further isolation and a frequently destructive spiral into worse mental suffering.
According to a research study conducted at the University of Delhi, more than 40% of elderly persons attributed their condition of solitude as having an essential risk in the phase of sustaining depression… it’s lonely since it lacks interaction. The loss of cognitive functioning can also be attributed to frail social interaction, as there is a decreased family member and peer interaction within this age group.
The Role of Technology and Community Support
Community projects, meanwhile, are already beginning to have an impact. Several NGOs in India have started projects addressing loneliness among the elderly. In this regard, the Silver Inning Foundation and the Agewell Foundation run helplines and activities directed toward combating isolation. These organisations offer emotional support, companionship programs, and home visits to help mitigate loneliness among the elderly.
Government policy is catching up at last. In 2018, the Indian government introduced the National Policy for Senior Citizens, which aims to improve healthcare, social support, and security for elderly persons. However, much more must be done to see that older persons are integrated into the social framework, with mental health given its rightful place in all considerations.
Elder Loneliness Must Be Addressed: An Agenda for Action
A multifactorial strategy is needed to address the issue of elderly loneliness. Family support mechanisms must be strengthened, intergenerational connections should be encouraged, and active community engagement among the elderly should be promoted. Given that modern society is constantly changing, the elderly must always be placed first on priorities in every social policy and family conversation.
Educating the younger generation about the mental health risks associated with elder loneliness and convincing them to spend more time with their ageing family members could significantly improve their quality of life.
Conclusion
Elder loneliness is a critical problem in India and cannot be left unattended. In this changing family structure, the elderly mustn’t get left out. Building resilience in these elderly people through family bond strengthening, empowering technology use, and reinforcing community support will reduce mental health risks among India’s ageing population.
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