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Social Conformity in Teenagers

Discover the impact of social conformity on teens and how to empower them through peer pressure, family support, and digital resilience.

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Social Conformity is a widely known human phenomena which elucidates us as social beings. It is the variability of the person to “conform” which is give-in to the situation happening around them so they do not feel embarrassed or feel different and confronted with others in the same situation . For example, when in a social group, you are asked about the famous movie “Charlie and the chocolate factory” and everyone around you has watched it. The tendency to “conform” to watching it even though you haven’t is much more than admitting to them that you didn’t. This phenomenon is known as Social Conformity. It is the inclination for the person to “fit in” to the social norms where you may feel different and also not the same as everyone around you.

We have all been in situations which may have led us to socially conform and the frequency of this phenomenon differs from person to person. As a whole, Social Conformity is a human tendency noticed in abundance in teenagers. Teenagers are age groups ranging from 13-19 who are hormonal and have their own wants and needs developed during this phase leading them to also conform to social pressure. 

There are two types of Conformity, which are:

Normative social conformity: Conforming to social norms and expectations to gain acceptance, approval, or avoid rejection or punishment. Normative social influence is driven by the desire to fit in with others and maintain social harmony, rather than a genuine belief in the correctness of the behavior. Imagine a high school student attending a party where alcohol is being served. Even though they don’t personally believe in underage drinking, they might feel pressured to have a drink because everyone else is doing it, and they want to fit in and avoid being seen as “uncool” or socially awkward.

Informational social conformity: Conforming to the beliefs or behaviors of others because of a desire to be correct or accurate in uncertain or ambiguous situations. Individuals may look to others for guidance or information when they are unsure about how to behave or interpret a situation. Suppose someone is attending a cooking class for the first time and is unsure about how to properly chop vegetables. They observe the instructor and other participants, noting their techniques and following their lead to ensure they are doing it correctly. In this scenario, the individual relies on the expertise of others to learn the skill effectively.

Cognitive Perspective

Cognitive refers to the brain processes (attention, perception, decision-making) in humans and a cognitive perspective is necessary to understand the underlying brain processes that involve when a person is demonstrating the phenomena of social conformity. It gives an insight into how and what really leads a person to conform which is found to be necessary to understand a teenager’s perspective from the viewpoint of the parents. Few of the theories of cognitive perspectives include:

  • Reinforcement learning: Reinforcement learning is a cognitive theory that suggests individuals learn and adapt their behaviors based on the consequences of their actions. In the context of social conformity, reinforcement learning posits that people conform to social norms or behaviors based on the positive or negative consequences they experience as a result. For example, if a teenager receives praise or acceptance from their peers for conforming to a particular fashion trend, they may be more likely to continue adhering to that trend in the future. This positive reinforcement strengthens the association between conforming behavior and social approval, making it more likely for the teenager to conform again in similar situations.
  • Conformity bias: Conformity bias refers to the tendency of individuals to adjust their beliefs, attitudes, or behaviors to align with those of a majority group, even if doing so contradicts their own perceptions or judgments. This bias arises from the desire to avoid social rejection, gain acceptance, or maintain harmony within the group. For example, if a group of teenagers is discussing their opinions on a controversial topic, such as politics or social issues, individuals may feel pressure to conform to the prevailing viewpoint expressed by the majority, even if they privately disagree. This conformity bias can lead individuals to suppress their own perspectives or doubts in order to avoid standing out or being perceived as deviant within the group
  • Intrinsic utility:  A theory of conformity was proposed by B. Douglass Beenheim called the intrinsic utility model related to status of a person. In this model, people care a lot about how others see their natural inclinations, even though these inclinations can’t be directly seen. So, people’s actions become signals of what they’re really like, affecting how they’re viewed by others. When fitting in socially is more important than personal happiness, many people follow the same rules of behavior, even if they prefer different things. They do this because they know that even small deviations from these rules can hurt how others see them.

The ways in which teenagers conform to social pressure is given as follows:

Peer Pressure

Peer pressure is perhaps the most widely recognized form of social conformity among teenagers. Adolescents often find themselves influenced by their peers to adopt certain behaviors, attitudes, and even fashion choices to fit in with their social group. This pressure can manifest in various ways, such as conformity to norms within cliques, participation in risky behaviors to gain acceptance, or even altering one’s appearance to align with perceived ideals. Research suggests that the need for peer acceptance and fear of rejection can significantly impact teenage decision-making, leading to conformity even when individuals may have reservations.

Family Pressure

While peer pressure garners significant attention, family pressure also plays a crucial role in shaping teenage behavior and beliefs. Adolescents often face expectations from their families regarding academic achievement, career choices, and adherence to cultural or familial traditions. Considering a country like India, it seems that the prevalence of familial pressure is higher. These expectations can exert a considerable influence on teenagers, leading them to conform to familial norms and values. Family pressure can range from subtle suggestions to explicit directives, and the desire for parental approval can drive adolescents to conform, sometimes even at the expense of their own desires or beliefs. 

Social Media

In today’s digital age, social media platforms wield substantial influence over teenage behavior and self-perception. Adolescents are exposed to curated representations of lifestyles, body images, and social activities, often leading to comparisons and feelings of inadequacy. The pressure to conform to online trends, emulate influencers, and gain validation through likes and comments can be overwhelming for teenagers. Moreover, the anonymity and distance provided by social media can facilitate the spread of unrealistic standards and cyberbullying, further exacerbating the pressure to conform. Research indicates that excessive social media use is associated with heightened levels of stress, anxiety, and depression among adolescents, highlighting the impact of digital pressures on teenage conformity.

Tips for parents to handle the teenager’s susceptibleness to social pressure

Educate about peer pressure: The susceptibility and compliance to peers is considerably higher in teenagers, therefore education regarding the potential influence they might experience is necessary for a better development of the teenagers. Teaching teenagers about peer pressure involves helping them recognize the difference between positive and negative influences from their peers. By equipping them with critical thinking skills and assertiveness techniques, parents can empower teenagers to make informed choices and resist negative peer pressure while fostering positive social interactions.

Providing open communication: Fostering an openness in communicating with your teenage children helps in giving them a window of opportunity to share their intricacies and complexities. This open dialogue cultivates trust and strengthens the parent-child relationship, allowing teenagers to feel supported and understood. By actively listening and empathizing with their experiences, parents can better guide their teenagers through the challenges of social pressure and promote healthy decision-making.

Monitoring social media usage: Monitoring the usage of social media is extremely intricate in the social conformity they might experience. Social media gives them an unrealistic expectation of how they are supposed to look like, how they are supposed to live and many more. This forms a key role for the parents to monitor their actions and activities. Teenages might not respond well to the monitoring because of the independence they crave for but if explained in a healthy way, they understand the perspectives and the negativity the parents are trying to explain to them about social media.

Portray healthy coping mechanisms: It is very likely that a teen experiences social conformity, but as a parent to elucidate healthy coping mechanisms like practicing mindfulness, journaling, creative outlets, positive self-talk and many more can help these teenagers cope healthily and make their lives better. 

Seeking professional help- If the parents notice significant changes in your teenager’s behavior, mood, or social interactions, consider seeking guidance from a mental health professional or counselor. Professional support can provide additional strategies for addressing social pressures and promoting your teenager’s well-being.

       Overall, Social conformity in teenagers is a multifaceted phenomenon shaped by peer, family, and digital influences. While peer pressure is often highlighted, family expectations and social media also exert significant sway over adolescent behavior and beliefs. Understanding the interplay between these various sources of influence is crucial for supporting teenagers in navigating social pressures and fostering healthy autonomy and self-expression. By fostering open communication, promoting critical thinking skills, and encouraging authentic self-discovery, parents, educators, and society can empower teenagers to resist harmful conformity and cultivate resilience in the face of social pressures.

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Creative Block: Tips & Strategies To Overcome It 

Creative blocks are annoying and can be the cause of various mental health disorders. Let’s look at some tips and strategies to overcome it.

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Being creative is not easy work. Sure it may seem easier but that doesn’t mean it is easier. Most of the time the answers are so ambiguous that it is hard to determine what is right for that particular piece of work. As ambiguity brings with it various risks some of which involve the relevance of the answer. The answer which could be a tune or a concept or a word that seems perfect right now may not be so perfect when you look at it from a different angle. It’s hard to be objective or choose one route when there are plenty available. But it is equally hard to come up with at least one route. When it becomes hard, we normally tend to give up but let’s find out how we don’t necessarily need to do so by following certain tips and strategies.

Creative Block

Creative block refers to a stage that one experiences when one feels like giving up after failing to find a certain answer to a creative piece even after trying multiple times. It is known as a creative block as it highlights the blockage of creativity due to various issues related to one’s mental health. It can be a really dark place to be in, but there is always a way out.

This creative block affects every creative person many times in their lives. But the feeling is always unpleasant. And it affects them even more if they were right in a phase of creative peak just before they hit a block. Creative peak refers to a time when the person is at a point in time where they can utilise their creativity to their maximum potential. In short, it is that phase that every creative person dreams of. For example, it was during this creative peak phase that Vincent Van Gogh created most of his phenomenal works that are revered to this day such as the Starry Night. Creative burnout on the other hand is a similar yet different phenomenon, to know more about creative burnout you can check out our article here!

Tips & Strategies to Get Over Creative Block

Creative block is something very normal and everyone goes through it. And many creative people have overcome this phase with certain tips and strategies. Some of these tips and strategies include:

  1. Give yourself a break:

It sounds really dumb and we get it, we are always told to remain focused and think about the problem as much as we can in order to arrive at a solution. But the reality is no matter how much we think about it we can’t seem to arrive at a solution then won’t it be better to leave it be for a while and just don’t think about it at all? The reason this tip or strategy works is because it allows our brain to relax and take its own time to come up with a solution. The more we think about that one problem the more we stress ourselves out as we can’t seem to find the solution. So, stop, take a breath, go out and do something that you love and get back to it.

  1. Change of environment:

Ever wondered if staring at the same boring ceiling or wall is what hinders your brain from thinking beyond its capacities? Sometimes the things around us become so familiar that it becomes hard to think of a solution in the same environment where you encountered the problem. A change of scenery or environment may not always be the solution but it could be the first step to the solution as when you are in a new environment you will perceive and experience things differently and this difference will add more perceptions in your brain, helping you in your creative process in the long run. Why do you think authors and artists take inspiration from different places they have visited in their lives?

  1. Experiment with different forms:

Sometimes the reason we feel stuck at something is because we are afraid of going beyond what we already know. It’s scary to try a different form or style or approach especially if you have mastered the one you are currently using. But sometimes the answer lies in trying out different approaches than holding yourself back. It can be really really horrifying at first which is why we suggest instead of drastically switching to a new approach we hope you first acquaint yourself with it by mixing elements of it with your current approach. And then who knows you might end up innovating an entirely new approach that is tailored just for you.

  1. Practice freely but in a routine:

It’s ironic that something that is free will also be happening in a routine. As if it’s free it should occur whenever and wherever it feels like, right? In reality, it’s not as easy as it may seem. Freedom is liberating and a great feeling at first but soon it becomes overwhelming if there are no rules or laws protecting, promoting and inculcating it in your environment. Hence routine acts like that boundary or law that does the job when you’re facing a creative block. A routine will ensure that you practice your freedom to think creatively as much as you can, but it ensures that you think about the issue in a creative manner at least once every day so that you don’t take your freedom for granted. Routine ensures that you don’t completely run away from the creative work while you’re trying to relax.

  1. Seek help:

It’s not easy to do all the brainstorming and executing by yourself hence it is highly advisable to take as much help as you can get. It’s not easy to trust someone else when it comes to your creative work but sometimes working with others not only helps you learn many things from them but also helps you understand yourself, your environment and your style better. And you shall never forget the masterpieces that you had created in the past for many times they hold the answer to your current creative problem. So, revisit them, and collaborate with others but don’t give up.

Going through a creative block is not easy. But it’s not the end of the world (although it may seem like it). Creative block is normal and everyone goes through it. It may seem dark and lonely but if you’re patient enough and put in enough work to get out of it, you will get out of it.  These tips and strategies are not a guarantee that you will solve your problem, but you will at least take the first few steps in the right direction which will help you get out of your creative block.

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Digital Media Overuse: What do you even mean?

Confused about what digital media “overuse” even means? Want to know if you should stop using digital media entirely? Read on to find out.

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We have all heard from our parents, teachers and everyone older than us about the bad side of digital media, such as TV, mobile phones, social media, etc. But then our friends love digital media and to be fair it doesn’t seem that bad, right? You get to know what your friends are up to thanks to your mobile phones and social media, you are caught up with the recent episodes of Doraemon, Pokemon, etc. and can talk about it with friends. All in all, there is no harm in using digital media. But rather it becomes harmful when we overuse it.

What do you mean by “overuse” of digital media?

“Overuse”, is a term you must have heard a lot but never quite understood what exactly it meant. And you have all the right to be confused, after all, who decides when you are overusing digital media? Yes, some studies say that after certain hours of usage, it is considered overuse to use social media, but then again these studies are done on humans and no two humans are alike. So, there is a possibility that the studies’ conclusion may not apply to a few humans. And who is to say that you are not one of the few? 

Then how can you define “overuse”? The answer is simple whenever “you” feel tired or drained out, don’t feel like doing physical activities anymore, have trouble sleeping or talking to new people such as new classmates or adjusting to new environments such as feeling very jumpy or restless at a family function, that is when you know you have overused digital media. But remember just like a cold has symptoms such as coughing, sneezing, headache, etc., the things mentioned previously are just some of the symptoms of overuse, it doesn’t mean you can’t get over it or get better, but you need to recognise these symptoms first then only you can start your treatment. Also keep in mind these are just a few symptoms, as the effects or symptoms of overuse will show up differently in different people, but one thing will remain consistent in all the symptoms, “you will not feel good”. You might feel restless, scared, sad or all of them together.

Should I stop using digital media altogether?

Should you stop eating ice cream entirely because you will get a cold if you have cold food items and drinks? Should you stop talking to everyone else in class because one of them was mean? Should you stop answering your question paper in the exam entirely because you don’t know the answer to one of the questions? NO! And that’s exactly why, you should not stop using digital media altogether or entirely as it has its benefits too.

Without digital media would you have known what is happening in other countries to prepare for your MUN debates? Without digital media would you have known the different music genres such as pop, hip-hop, K-pop, etc.? Without digital media would you have known about the various tales of bravery that Little Krishna went on or the life lessons about things you should and should not do from Doraemon?

Digital media is pretty important in today’s age, so it is not at all something you should ignore entirely and not indulge in. It’s like asking our parents to not write whatever they heard in class on paper to remember as our ancestors used to have an oral culture of learning where people used to listen and remember. So, instead of writing it down they should also listen and remember, but the invention of paper and ink made it possible to reduce the burden on our brain and we incorporated it into our daily lives. Just like that digital media has reduced our reliance on written hard-bound materials a lot. This is not only sustainable in the long run but also makes it easier for us to understand difficult to simple concepts better as now we have audio-visual aids at the tip of our fingers to help us break down the written concepts easily. Learning doesn’t need to be confined to a classroom. 

What should I do to prevent the overuse of digital media?

Preventing overuse is not that simple but it’s not entirely impossible. You don’t have to take drastic steps or use drastic techniques such as entirely stopping to use your phones or watching the television. But rather take it slow. One of the techniques could be that if using digital media such as your phone for 12 hours straight is making you feel tired and not feel great in general, then reduce the time that you engage with digital media by 1 hour every two days until you don’t feel so bad. 

Now if you are cutting down the hours that you used to use digital media you must have some free time which will make you think, “What will I do with that much free time?”. You don’t need to study more or fill out another workbook in maths or English grammar, just because you have a little more time now. Instead, use the extra time to make origami or crochet something or maybe finally make that dessert that you saw them making in Masterchef Kids. Yes, you might have to use digital media to get the crochet or origami pattern or the recipe for that Masterchef Kids’ dessert but it won’t be for a long time and once you get a hang of it you won’t need the digital media aid for long. 

How about using this technique, suppose you were using digital media for 12 hours and then you reduced it to 8 hours over a period of time, out of that 8 hours maybe use 2 hours for practising the new crochet pattern or origami pattern while looking at the tutorials and the extra time that you have you can try practising it without the tutorial. Slowly you will get into new kinds of activities that won’t necessarily require digital media at all times of the day but will keep you equally occupied with other things that will help you learn and grow every day. 

Another technique that you can use is doing nothing. Sometimes when you don’t want to do anything, how about just not doing it? Maybe take the free time to just sit and watch the stray dogs run on the street or think about the conversations you had with your friends or mum the other day, take some free time to just think and wonder to help you understand others and the environment around you better. This will certainly help you in developing your emotional quotient or EQ, which is very different from IQ and actually depends on how emotionally aware you are about yourself and about others in your surroundings. One of the ways to develop EQ is by giving yourself the time and space to understand what you are going through and what others are going through.

Conclusion

Now these are a few techniques that you can use to prevent overuse but that doesn’t mean that there aren’t any other techniques. But these techniques work the best because you don’t entirely stop using digital media overnight but rather reduce your usage and over time fill the free time with something else. Always remember digital media has its pluses and minuses just like Doraemon’s gadgets. It all boils down to how you use it and how much you use it, to ensure you make the most of it. 

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Remembering Vijaya Mulay

Vijaya Mulay: A Pioneer in Indian Cinema and Education- Honoring the legacy of a filmmaker who shaped childhoods.

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For those who grew up in the 1970s and 80s, the song “Ek Chidiya Anek Chidiya” holds a cherished place in the hearts of many. It was more than just a catchy tune; it was a reminder of unity in diversity, beautifully portrayed in the short animated film “Ek, Anek aur Ekta.” directed by the late Vijaya Mulay.

Vijaya Mulay was a renowned filmmaker, film historian, researcher and educationalist born in Mumbai. Mulay’s journey with cinema began in Patna in 1940, where she used to frequent city theatres to watch English films. This passion for cinema led her to pursue a master’s in education in the UK, after which she returned to India and became actively involved in film societies, notably founding the Delhi Film Society in 1959.

Throughout her career, Vijaya Mulay made significant contributions to Indian cinema and education. She served as the joint secretary of the Federation of Film Societies alongside film critic Chidananda Dasgupta, with Satyajit Ray as its founding President. Her work at the Central Board of Film Certification in the early 1960s shaped the Indian film industry. She also played a vital role in producing several educational films widely used in schools across the country, promoting a progressive and inclusive approach to education.

In 1967, Vijaya Mulay fostered a lifelong friendship with celebrated French filmmaker Louis Malle, who assisted her in making her debut film “The Tidal Bore.” This film, depicting a natural phenomenon along the Hooghly River, garnered international acclaim and was India’s official entry at the Mannheim Film Festival. Its success not only marked a significant milestone in Mulay’s career but also showcased the potential of Indian cinema on the global stage.

Mulays’s accolades include the V Shantaram Award for Lifetime Achievement for documentaries and the Vikram Sarabhai Lifetime Achievement Award for educational communication. She was also awarded the national award for best writing in cinema.

In 1975, Mulay led the Centre for Educational Technology (CET), where she produced educational films broadcast across thousands of villages. One of the most notable films from CET’s animation studious was “Ek, Anek aur Ekta”. This film, a heartwarming tale of unity in diversity, won the National Film Award for Best Educational Film. Its success reflected Vijaya Mulay’s commitment to progressive education and inclusive ideals and demonstrated the power of film as a tool for social change.

Vijaya Mulay’s vision of a diverse yet united India is evident in “Ek, Anek aur Ekta,” a film that resonates even today amidst political turmoil. At a time when diverse rhetoric dominates, Mulay’s work reminds us of the importance of unity and inclusivity.

As we remember Vijaya Mulay’s legacy, we honour her contributions to Indian Cinema and education. May her films inspire generations, fostering a spirit of harmony and understanding in our society.

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Inamorata’s Labyrinth: A Book For All The Things You Can’t Admit

Inamorata’s Labyrinth is a book that reminds us that there is nothing wrong with loving passionately another person as well as ourselves.

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They say it’s easy to write about the feelings to help you process your emotions better. But sometimes these feelings can get pretty dark and not so easy to process and that’s when your writing ends up becoming dark as well. Writings that are this dark in thoughts and emotions is not everyone’s cup of tea but those who have a taste for such writings just can’t stop preaching about the depths of such writings. It’s the subtle hints here and there, the deep angst and yearning that bring about the satisfaction in the end. Satisfaction not of lovers uniting but of finding oneself amidst the maddening crowd of blind lovers. Satisfaction of finally gaining back your sanity and vision after the rosy dusk of love has settled. And lastly, the satisfaction of knowing that you are indeed a human for you loved with all your heart and now you shall hate with that much passion for “you” matter. The book Inamorata’s Labyrinth by Sherryl Samantha Pal takes on this treacherously satisfactory journey to remind us what truly matters

Inamorata’s Labyrinth: A Closer Look

With a collection of short stories and poems, Inamorata’s Labyrinth takes us on a journey that is sad and dark in the beginning but you will find hope for a new beginning. A beginning that may lack the company of a certain someone you were very close with but will have the company of a person who has been there for you since day one, i.e., you. Navigating through negative emotions and sadness through the various characters in the book you are bound to find a kindred spirit and understand yourself better.

Inamorata’s Labyrinth not only affirms in you the belief that it’s okay to love like crazy but it also reminds you that it’s okay to fight for yourself and put yourself first no matter what. It reminds you that it’s okay to fall into the deepest depths of despair but you must rise. It reminds you that sadness is not something you should run away from but rather accept it like you accept joy. Lastly, Inamorata’s Labyrinth reminds you to never forget the happiness you felt with yourself just because you have now become familiar with sadness over the loss of a type of happiness you felt with someone who is not there anymore. 

Truly raw and pure, each page of Inamorata’s Labyrinth holds an emotion that is bound to resonate with readers from every walk of life. The poems though short carry with them such pangs of reality that by the time you reach the last word, it will feel as if somebody has poured a bucket of cold water on you. Inamorata’s Labyrinth is truly a labyrinth of emotions, a journey that the reader takes from the first page to the last and yet feels lost and content by the time they close the book.

Afterword

After successfully publishing her first two books, Arcane: Silhouettes, and Esterdale, Inamorata’s Labyrinth appears to be a harmonious blend of writing style that Pal has presented earlier in her previous books. But what sets this book apart from the other two is its depth and maturity when dealing with complex emotions and feelings of love, loss and betrayal. Inamorata’s Labyrinth is a must-read for anyone looking for a type of satisfaction that can only be achieved when you start on the journey to find yourself again. It will remind you to never ever take yourself for granted no matter how grand and pretty the rosy dusk of love may look but at the same not be ashamed to love another with as much love as you have for yourself when it feels right to you. The heavy importance given to your feelings and emotions is what makes this book stand out from the crowd. 

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Imposter Syndrome

Imposter Syndrome can be quite a difficult feeling to navigate around, understand its impact on your well-being, & thoughts to cope with it.

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Imagine you find yourself in a new job, it’s been a week since you’ve started working and the feelings that you’re experiencing are doubt, fear and anxiety. The thoughts that run through your head include, “Is this right for me?”, “I feel like I don’t deserve this”, “I’ll never be good enough” and many more. This feeling of not being good enough and self-doubt lies in the psychological feeling called “Imposter Syndrome”

Imposter Syndrome is the psychological feeling or pattern of experiencing constant self-doubt, feeling like a “fraud”, persistent fear of not being good enough and feelings of inadequacy. This holds, especially with the evidence of the person being highly qualified and accomplished in a particular role or profession. This causes distress, anxiety, preoccupations, fear and many other negative feelings that might hamper the functioning of the person. Imposter syndrome is well known to be experienced by a wide spectrum of people including students, professionals, academics, minorities, and perfectionists. All of these individuals experience imposter syndrome while especially holding high achievements, being underrepresented and susceptible to being perfect. While the highs of achieving are often related to positive feelings of superiority, happiness and self-encouragement, people with imposter syndrome experience feelings of weakness, and inadequacy and think they do not deserve this. This can cause immense stress and anxiety if not dealt with effectively. 

Psychological Impact of Imposter Syndrome

  1. Distress: Distress refers to a state of extreme sadness, pain and suffering which holds in the case of people with Imposter Syndrome. Having to doubt your capabilities and abilities does cause negative feelings to occur leading it to become distress. For example, a student who ranks first after extensive effort thinks that they do not deserve the rank and becomes distressed about the fact. This distress can likely impact their mental well-being, affecting both their academic performance, overall quality of life and their self-esteem.
  2. Self-sabotage: When they cannot acknowledge the fact of being in a highly qualified position or being in a stage that they think they don’t deserve, leads to feelings of disempowering nature and urges to self-sabotage. Self-sabotaging can transpire in several ways, including overworking, underachieving, procrastinating and seeking rejection. For example, when a person gets promoted they might seek rejection consciously or subconsciously because of the negative feelings being attached with Imposter Syndrome they experience.
  3. Negative self-talk: Negative self-talk refers to the habit of engaging in conversations with oneself that lead to pessimistic internal dialogues. It may be the result of Imposter Syndrome as seeking rejection and self-sabotage is also a part of the psychological effect it has on individuals. It can be characterised by statements like, “I always mess things up”, “I’m not good enough to deserve this”, “I’ll never succeed” and many more. An example of negative self-talk can be attributed to the earlier example of being promoted to a position of power and feelings of inadequacy arise because of the Imposter Syndrome faced by the person. Statements like “I’m not good enough to deserve this”, “They must have made a mistake while giving me this” and many more are experienced.
  4. Low self-esteem: One of the most important qualities that can be shattered because of experiencing Imposter Syndrome is self-esteem. As a result of having Imposter Syndrome, one can experience difficulty in internalising their achievements and attribute it to luck and other external factors rather than their abilities. An example of this is a student passing a difficult exam suffering from Imposter Syndrome and attributes the success of passing to luck and that others probably didn’t put in effort rather than appreciating oneself for their effort. 
  5. Anxiety: The most distinct aspect of Imposter Syndrome is the constant fear of being a “fraud” and being found out for the same. This causes restlessness, ruminations and preoccupation with these thoughts even the perceived fear. An example of this includes an employee feeling the need to keep up with the expectations of others because of high expectations and feeling like being caught for faking it until then even if it was their abilities that lead them to achieve higher. Being anxious causes immense stress and preoccupations with daily functioning that should be ideally intervened. 

Coping with Imposter Syndrome

It can be quite frustrating and exhausting to deal with feelings of inadequacy, negative feelings and feeling like a “fraud”. Here are some of the ways to cope with Imposter Syndrome which can be quite beneficial:

  1. Challenge Negative thoughts: Recognising when feelings of inadequacy arise and understanding them are necessary steps to move forward. To challenge these negative thoughts the first step would be acknowledging them. The next step is to reframe the negative thoughts into positive ones which is achieved only when they are acknowledged. To help with reframing and changing the thoughts, positive affirmations are evidence that support or contradict these thoughts can be done. It is also important to remember that feelings of inadequacy are not always based on facts but are often distorted perceptions of ourselves.
  2. Developing a growth mindset: Embracing challenges is always a part of growing. Changing the mindset to being growth-oriented in nature and understanding that challenges can be accepted can help in coping with Imposter Syndrome. Further cultivating a belief in one’s ability to learn and adapt rather than being fixed on current abilities can help one grow further and develop a growth mindset. Using constructive criticism, viewing your failure as feedback and celebrating successes can each be a stepping stone to overcoming Imposter Syndrome. By embracing a growth mindset, one can overcome self-limiting beliefs and unlock the full potential to learn, grow and succeed in all areas of life. 
  3. Seek professional help: One of the most effective ways to overcome Imposter Syndrome is to seek professional help. Therapy provides a way to unveil all thoughts and feelings and provide a space to internalise everything. It also allows for a person with Imposter Syndrome to cope and overcome all the psychological aspects and provide insights into the same. Especially when the feelings related to Imposter Syndrome are significantly impairing one’s daily functioning and well-being, therapy and seeking other forms of mental health professionals can do wonders to manage and overcome imposter syndrome effectively. 

Here is a video to help you with imposter syndrome:

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In conclusion, it is important to understand that Imposter Syndrome is a complex human phenomenon experienced at different degrees by different people across all occupations and demographics. While Imposter Syndrome provides a label to the feelings and thoughts experienced, it becomes essential to remember that it does not diminish one’s own capabilities and achievements. The phenomenon of Imposter Syndrome is only a result of human’s drive for excellence and promotes resilience once it’s overcome. By delving into one’s vulnerabilities and strengths, Imposter Syndrome can be navigated with resilience and confidence holistically reaching one’s full potential.

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